Schools Can Change

Today I received a newsletter in the mail. Mr. Gentry attached a paper on the front of every newsletter and it included some information that I thought was interesting. I have to disagree with some of Mr. Gentry's claims, I can only assume he is misinformed. There were several incidences of 'trashcannings' last year, and some of the students were trash canned twice. I am worried that Mr. Gentry might actually believe that these things are not happening, however I can not be certain. He also mentions the Link Crew program, from my understanding that was implemented last year. Many people got assigned mentors but Myself and a few others did not. Also during the year we were told we were getting new mentors due to an uneven number of people in each group, but after that nothing happened. It was a brilliant idea, and many people looked forward to it, but sadly the program did not last. To Mr. Gentry's credit the extra staff on campus has helped with the 'trashcannings' this year but it has not stopped the other forms of harassment and bullying. Pretending like it is not happening does not mean it is going away.

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This is the article that got me sent to the principals' office.

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This is in response to Chance Crail and Terry Lane's articles. I understand that there are different beliefs on this subject, but my opinion is that something needs to be done about the bullying at Clear Lake High School.

I am a sophomore at CLHS. Last year, as a freshman, I witnessed other freshmen getting "trash-canned" and students getting beaten up when they said the wrong thing or wore the wrong outfit. This year I decided I was going to join Chance and many others in this struggle to help make my school a better place.

I do understand that many administrators, teachers and parents took part in similar traditions when they were in high school so they tolerate this type of behavior now but that does not mean it's right. Being a strong supporter of student rights, I strongly disagree with many of the traditions at Clear Lake High School.

One example of these traditions is online bullying, also called cyberbullying, where students send threatening or insulting e-mails, MySpace messages or texts. There is even a Facebook page set up simply to "hate freshmen," which many of the students at CLHS are fans of some of my friends included. There are currently over 100,000 subscribers to that page alone. If this was a page hating black students or Jewish students, or gay students, people would be outraged. If groups of students were only "trash-canning" certain ethnic or religious groups, they would be hate crimes. These assaults are against the law and should be against school rules. School is hard enough, especially as a freshman, without having to suffer degrading comments, ridicule, verbal and physical assaults and disrespect. It needs to change. Our school can change. We need to make our school a safe place where students aren't afraid to walk onto the campus.

The best solution that my peers and I could come up with to this problem was to work with the administration and introduce the implementation of a positive behavioral program such as Challenge Day (http://www.challengeday.org/) which includes workshops intended to result in more friendly environments and safer schools.

We have created a Challenge Day Club in hopes of raising enough money for the program to come to our school. If you would like to contact us or would like more information you can visit the club's new Web site (http://www.schoolscanchange.com/).

Megan Griffith

Today I was called into Mr. Gentry's office during first period. (Mr. Gentry is the principal of Clear Lake High School.) He told me that he wanted to discuss a few points that I made in my letter to the editor. One of the issues that we discussed was about the students getting trash canned last year. He asked:

• - Who was involved?
• - Where was it?
• - Around what time did this happen?
• - How many did you see?

My response was not very helpful due to the fact that I was a freshman and I was new to the area therefore I did not know anyone -- however I was able to answer the other three questions to some extent.

He also asked the same questions about people who got beat up last year, although I was able to answer these questions.

After I finished answering questions Mr. Gentry said that the fights did not happen how I stated they did. I was told that these fights happened for different reasons but I've talked to most of the students involved and they told me otherwise.

Thanks for your time, I just wanted to clear a few things up.

Megan

January 07, 2009 03:42 PM ET | Jessica Calefati | Permanent Link | Print

Last week, California joined the growing number of states that have passed laws against cyberbullying—harassment inflicted not by physically menacing bullies at schools but through social networking sites, instant messenger programs, and other forms of digital communication.

As of January 1, officials in California schools may suspend or expel students who harass their peers through cyberbullying, the Washington Post reports. Like California's law, anti-cyberbullying laws passed in other states call on school districts to develop policies regarding cyberbullying detection and punishment. Other states with cyberbullying laws include: Arkansas, Delaware, Idaho, Iowa, Michigan, Minnesota, Nebraska, New Jersey, Oklahoma, Oregon, South Carolina, and Washington.

More laws are needed because the problem is becoming increasingly widespread. According to a 2006 National Crime Prevention Council study, 40 percent of teens surveyed had experienced some form of cyberbullying in their lifetime. The study also found cyberbullying to be most common among females and adolescents who are 15 and 16 years old.

Perhaps one of the most well-known cases of cyberbullying is that of Megan Meier, a 13-year-old girl from Missouri who hanged herself after being harassed online by a middle-aged woman posing as a teenage boy on MySpace.com. After courting Meier and gaining her trust, 49-year-old Lori Drew (known to Meier as Josh) began sending insulting, hurtful messages to Meier, who had a history of depression and low self-esteem. Before her suicide, Meier told her mother of online posts including "Megan Meier is a slut" and "Megan Meier is fat," ABC News reports.

Though laws against cyberbullying represent progress toward preventing it in the future, cases of cyberbullying are, for the time being, difficult to investigate. Because of the Web's anonymity, it is often tough for school officials to track bullies, and in other instances, adults may not fully understand the technology used to commit cyberbullying. School officials are also weary of crossing the line between protecting students from harassment and respecting their right to free speech, especially speech that takes place outside of school.

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Wow, You should look at this facebook page. People say our school doesnt need help, but I think they are wrong. What do you think?
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Hey everyone! Here is an update on what is going on. If you would like to learn more about Challenge Day we have a meeting the first Monday of every month at Round Table Pizza. If you would like to know the time please feel free to contact me.

We also have elected club officers :

• - President : Megan Griffith
• - Vice President : Brianna Estrada
• - Treasurer : Jessica Henson
• - Secretary : Kristy Zurcher
• - Host : Anna Westin

Thank you so much for your time.

-Megan